A few things that make a big difference

1. Don't take yourself too seriously!

2. Don't assume that everything has to be the way you want it to be (we often don't know what's best for us!)

3. Get comfortable with the impermanence of all things

4. Be slow to judge and flexible enough to question your own opinions.

5. If you notice that being kind makes you feel good, keep doing it!

6. If you notice that being kind makes others feel good, keep doing it!